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First date flowers advice that is needed for all

Best flowers to give a woman on a first date - Wantmatures Blog

A single flower on the first date can be perceived as romantic or cheesy. A bouquet of flowers will either go down as a lovely gesture or a creepy stunt to pull. By going empty-handed, are you thoughtless and rude, or are you cautious and sensible? If you go fully loaded with gifts, are you too over-bearing and presumptuous? Whatever you decide, there is no set precedence for this kind of thing. It is an individual preference and something that no-one can really have a blanket answer for. That is why love is such an unpredictable rollercoaster!

How to know what the best flower to give on the first date?

The truth is, you can never be sure what the best flowers for the first date could be. Do you trust the generalizations that you will hear on the topic? Unless you have inside knowledge that your lady likes a particular flower type, then it’s probably your best bet. Unless you go digging for information from the woman herself and spoil the surprise, it can be tricky. You don’t want to lose the spontaneity of the moment, and in all likelihood, you won’t be in a position to ask her friends or family. It is the first date, you haven’t even met them yet! Choosing an appropriate flower to give on a first date is a delicate process and one you should not rush into.

Looking at online selections from professional florists can be overwhelming as the range of choice is vast. You will easily get lost amongst the hundreds of different options and confuse yourself even more. This is especially true if you don’t know what you are looking for. It can also be an expensive choice as you will be paying for packaging and delivery on top of the flowers you pick. Popping into a florist yourself to browse the bouquets is equally intimidating. With so many colors, sizes, and contrasting arrangements all leaping out at you, it can be an impossible feat to retain composure and choose wisely.

More often than not, you will be led by the price tag. Flowers can be affordable but also could break the bank if you get carried away and don’t set a limit. This risk is exemplified when you leave the decision in the hands of the proprietor. Guidance and advice are one thing but passing over full responsibility to the professional may seem a faultless and wise move in flower selection. This choice leaves you exposed and offers the opportunity for exploitation.

The florist, knowing you don’t have a clue what you are talking about and don’t know the first thing about flowers, is now in the ascendancy. You trust them to make a fair and selfless decision to not take advantage of your flower naivety and recommend the highest price flowers. They may genuinely be the best pick in terms of quality and the impression you want to make on your date but do you really want to spend half your wages on someone you don’t know, who could turn out to be horrible. Take ownership of the decision or run the risk of the florist lining their own pockets at your expense.

Do you give flowers on a first date?

Many men will wonder, ‘is it ok to bring flowers on a first date?’ just like women will ponder what they will do if dating, the man presents her with a bunch of flowers when they meet. For a guy, a wise move would be to check out her Wantmatures.com profile. The site might offer clues as to whether the lady likes flowers and secondly if she is amongst those members who would appreciate the gift. If you are doing it to flirt and to seek attention, then perhaps think again because your intentions may come across as a bit desperate. If you are hesitant at all, then lean on the side of caution. You could even bring it up in conversation maturely and respectfully.

This then drops the hint that you considered the thoughtful gesture, but if you follow it up with ‘I wanted to get to know you a bit better and see which flowers you like before doing something like that, then this sets you up nicely to do it on your second date, knowing that you will have her approval. Additionally, this cements your relationship credentials and gives the lady a good feeling about you and your intentions towards her. Crucially, it also provides her the opportunity to clarify whether you would have been making a mistake by giving her flowers on the first date. You could even laugh and joke about it. Then you will have a clear position from which to move the relationship in with your future flower providing service choices towards your partner.

An alternative way of discovering if giving flowers on a first date is the right move for you and your date would be to include it on your profile. If you incorporate it as part of a cheeky addition to your Wantmatures bio, then it saves second-guessing everything and also provides the interested lady a window of opportunity to message you first. It is a conversation starter and a chance to flirt from the get-go rather than have to build into anything. Something simple such as ‘I am an old romantic with traditional values. I like to spoil my woman and love to buy her flowers to make her feel special. If I was lucky enough to get a first date with you, what flowers would you appreciate from me as a gift?’. This is a direct approach to what you want to know, offers them a chance to speak to you in a light-hearted first message, and saves any embarrassment if you do end up going on a date together.

What kind of flowers on a first date?

The type of flowers for first date purposes needs to be selected carefully as to not send the wrong message. You may not be aware of this, but flower type can often signify a particular meaning. Some flowers are given traditionally at certain times of the year or on specific occasions. Mixing these up can give the wrong impression and confuse your date so getting it right is crucial. We aren’t talking catastrophic levels here, the kind of mistake that can end a marriage or leave you divorced should you make the wrong choice. But their meaning can be misleading. Single, lonely users on Wantmatures will want to make an educated decision when looking for love. You don’t have to be a senior florist to get the general idea about what message a first date flower can send;

Flower Name

  • Alstroemeria
  • Amaryllis
  • Carnations
  • Forget Me Nots
  • Freesia
  • Gardenias
  • Lilac
  • Lily
  • Orchid
  • Pansy
  • Poppy
  • Ranunculus
  • Roses
  • Statice
  • Sunflower
  • Sweet Pea
  • Tulip
  • Yarrow
  • Zinnia

It’s Meaning

  • Devotion & Friendship
  • Beauty & Pride
  • Multiple & dependent on color
  • Memories
  • Innocence & Friendship
  • Secret Love or Crush
  • Confidence
  • Beauty & Purity
  • Exotic Beauty
  • Love & Admiration
  • Sleep/Peace/Death
  • Attractive & Radiant
  • Multiple & dependent on color
  • Sympathy & Remembrance
  • Adoration
  • Pleasure & Bliss
  • Love
  • Love
  • Absent Friend